Many girls will define beauty as being stick thin, tall, very slender, tan skin, blond hair, etc. Me? I’m none of those things. I am far from being stick thin, I am 5 ft. 3 in., I have curves, I am pale, and I have dark hair. And I am trying to embrace it all and love myself. I know girls with eating disorders. Girls who contemplate having eating disorders. And for what? They want to throw up their food or worse- starve themselves- so they can fit into a size zero jean. I hate to break it to you ladies, but being so thin your ribs and backbones stick out, just isn’t all that sexy. People are not perfect.